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Those legs cannot pull those leggings off.ĩ. Are you like, a feminist? Does that mean you hate all men?Ĩ. Okay, is it that time of the month already?ħ. Okay, there’s no reason to start crying about this now, alright?Ħ. Wow! You really need to calm your t**s!Ĥ. Hahaha! You are really funny for a girl!ģ. Are you sure you can handle that? Do you want me to help?Ģ. Whether you call yourself a feminist on Facebook or are a gay guy who simply enjoys helping around at home, if you go ahead and say any one of these 50 sexist (or sometimes, misogynistic) things to (or around) a woman, you are probably getting it wrong:ġ. Sometimes, all it takes is a single statement to be an a**hole – it’s like using the #NotAllMen hash tag at the end of your tweet – you’ve literally proved your douchiness in 280 characters or less. Sure, you might be averse to rape jokes, fight for #GenderEquality campaigns online, listen to Beyoncé’s ‘ Run The World (Girls)’ on loop, or stand up for your women friends when they are being harassed at the bar, but then again, that’s so 2012. Using your sexuality as an excuse to grab at a woman is the same as saying "But her clothes asked for it" - it’s as silly as the term ‘Feminazi’. Friends or not, your general idea might not be sexual, but the entire belief that men are entitled to women’s bodies is… You might love seeing straight women at pubs on queer nights, but that still doesn’t give you a reason to cozy up to them without their consent. This attitude seeps in everywhere, such as the ‘boys-are-better-because-girls-are-weaker’ stories we have heard across generations – lies that are reinforced at school, the work place, home, and even films - making their way into everyday conversations and harmless banter at parties. The fact that you are into men doesn’t mean that you aren’t a tool of patriarchy. In my guide to not being your everyday misogynist, I told you that your sexuality doesn’t really prevent you from being exposed to misogynistic attitudes. "But I am gay!" you squeal, "I obviously respect women." How you treat (and respect) women every day.
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A fat paycheck, dimples and six-pack abs might make most gay men look like they’ve stepped straight out of a list of ‘The Most Eligible Bachelors In The World’, but what makes a guy (read: you) truly attractive?